Sunday, December 21, 2008

(All pics lead to bigger versions in a web album.)
From 2008 Nov-Dec
Under Nanna's instruction, Taya has been doing all her poos and many pees in buckets, bowls, potties, sinks, and toilets!

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Auntie Sandra came out and showered Taya with love and affection ...

From 2008 Nov-Dec
And some early gymnastics training! ;)

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Taya began smiling--early and often, thank goodness! These heart-melters make her colicky times sooo much easier to handle.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Sporting Auntie Chinook's mukluks and a gorgeous outfit from beloved neighbours.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Humouring Daddy above and beyond the call of duty. :)

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Nanna suggested that Taya might be a nudist in the making, given how she enjoys being mostly naked. And she seems even cuter that way!

From 2008 Nov-Dec
She also loves standing. The combination was irresistible.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
We may have gone over a month without cleaning (I know--gross!!!), but we impressed ourselves by getting out for hikes almost every weekend. Here at Deep Cove with Auntie Sandra.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Sporting a beautiful hand-made hat and loving being a pea in a pod.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Bath time, once a challenge, has become very enjoyable for all involved (except for the occasional poos in the bath). Check out this video (no poo involved).

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Ljuba loves Taya's hair wet and is looking around for eco-friendly baby hair product. :)

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Taya loves scalp massages!

From 2008 Nov-Dec
And looking at herself in the mirror.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
In another gorgeous hand-made hat, Taya smoked Lj's finger, gangster style.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Taya loves sleeping with us.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
Especially if it means getting naked beside us.

From 2008 Nov-Dec
She's learning to roll and crawl, especially if boobies are in sight!

From 2008 Nov-Dec
But like Mommy, waking up is hard to do (check out this video).

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Weeks 1-7: Taya's feeding, bathing, and sleeping

(All pics lead to higher-resolution ones in a Picasa web album.)

From Oct-Nov 2008
Taya got weighed over and over again, and this continues. Believe me, Taya liked these colourful hammocks way better than the cold flat metal scales!

From Oct-Nov 2008
Ljuba loved Taya's fuzzy shoulders and arms. We were both amazed at her head control--here about a week old.

From Oct-Nov 2008
One day I (KC) turned around to see that Taya had rolled onto her side and grabbed this wooden box that Auntie Simona painted, pulling herself in with force!

From Oct-Nov 2008
When we took Taya to the hospital (for her 1st of 3 visits) for her occasionally abnormally low resting heart rate, she showed off her hiccoughs, which made attaching the electrodes quite a challenge.

From Oct-Nov 2008
In the early days we tried many feeding methods (to spare Lj's poor beaten nipples), including the finger & syringe.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Despite haveing her diaper changed (the lower part of this picture cropped for the sake of decency and Taya's future modesty), Taya was blissfully asleep.

From Oct-Nov 2008
We love our tummy time, especially skin to skin.

From Oct-Nov 2008

Sleeping like a baby (yes we understand the irony in this saying now!!!)

From Oct-Nov 2008

Catching some winks with a cuddle.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Nanna and Grandpa stayed for a whole month helping out in every way possible, including the feeding. I (KC) was confident Grandpa would be a pro with this method!

From Oct-Nov 2008
Happily contorted in the sling, and like so often, holding on.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Ah, satiated, and quiet. :)

From Oct-Nov 2008
Holding Daddy's finger.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Auntie Soo and family came up from Portland for a few days.

From Oct-Nov 2008
It was great to see them. Here's Brayden and Tony eating Indonesian food that Nanna helped cook (!) in a local cafe.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Here's Nanna and cousin Teague.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Cooing while bathing.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Mommy & Taya enjoying a feed.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Auntie Sandra visited for a month while she did a work term.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Grandpa entertained Taya with mouth clicking (which you'll be proud to know, Dad, she has actually imitated!-KC

From Oct-Nov 2008
Sporting Auntie Melinda's gorgeous outfit.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Big eyes for the camera.

From Oct-Nov 2008
We were all proud of ourselves for getting out hiking on the North shore, even if it did rain again and again.

From Oct-Nov 2008
Showing off a gorgeous nightie from Paul, Stacie & Jelena and hand-knitted booties from Erika (thank you!).

From Oct-Nov 2008
"Yes, I know how to look into the camera!"

From Oct-Nov 2008
Intent on Daddy, now that I've got something to suck on (getting her daily vitamin D drop).

Friday, October 3, 2008

Long lead-up, and grand entry

In August, Simona came out to visit Taya Samara in the womb-without-a-view and to put her design skills to work preparing our townhouse for Taya's arrival. The 4 of us went to Sasamat Lake, and Taya had a nice sunbathe, albeit sheltered by Mommy's belly.
Simona consulted, designed, organized, and painted. We couldn't keep up with her torrid pace!

I tried to reward Simona with a hike up Lynn Peak (unfortunately without Ljuba and Taya)--of course my own desire for a hike had nothing to do with it!

Taya grew and grew ...

And in a precocious display of telekinetic powers, she signalled to us through the womb.

A taste of the products of Simona's redecorating prowess (no, the 'before' pictures are not for public consumption!).
Here's the crib, all ready for Taya to sleep peacefully beside us (wishful thinking!).
Look at Taya's size in late August!
Taya's Babica (Slovenian for 'grandmother', Ljuba's mother Frances) arrived in early September. Here she is with Ljuba and Taya on the way to Bowen Island.

On the same trip, here's Ljuba, Taya, and Rose, our much anticipated visitor from Switzerland.
Babica enjoyed some fresh BC berries, which she promptly turned into cobblers and other desserts.

After Taya's due date (Sept 15), the waiting game began. On Sept 16, Ljuba had a bout of contractions (that felt different from the Braxton-Hicks contractions she'd had so many of), so we figured Taya would arrive that night. She didn't, but the next day Ljuba was 3-cm dilated, so the midwives were confident Taya would come soon. That night, Ljuba had another bout of contractions, so we felt sure that Taya would arrive imminently. Two days later, Lj had *another* bout of contactions, and we were *convinced* that Taya would arrive any moment. Many bouts of contractions later, and many feelings of imminent arrival later, we all stopped predicting.

That is, until Friday, when--after a walk in the endowment lands, Lj & Kai independently felt certain--for real this time! :)--that real labour was going to begin late that night. Down in Portland, Kai's mum (Penny/Nanna) had the same feeling that Taya would be born on Saturday. It must have been the added weight of Nanna's spiritual nature (her great aunt is a medium) that made the predicted event finally happen.

The labour was long, arduous, and complicated--a separate story we can send to those interested--but Ljuba endured like a marathoner and pushed like a madwoman. Our midwife (Candace) and the attending nurse noted well before Taya arrived that she had a head full of hair (just like her Daddy did)--they styled it well before Taya was out. At 1742 on Saturday September 27, out popped Taya Samara Kovacic Chan, weighing 3.795 kg (8 lbs, 6 oz).

She also had her daddy's lungs and her mommy's joie de vivre (here she is screaming like a banshee and kicking like a bronco). Fortunately, this first (unpleasant) experience with Daddy didn't interfere with our bonding.

Here I am trying to make it up to her, with some skin-to-skin to keep her warm. Of course, she was disappointed when she found my non-functional nibs-for-nipples.

Mommy reported the good news to Babica, who had been anxiously waiting at home all day.

Candace gave us a tour of Taya's home for 9 months: here's the amniotic sac and the placenta.

Babica was instantly in love. :) The feeling was mutual.

After her first bath, Daddy danced with Taya to placate her, and even his off-tune badly mangled singing didn't put her off. Ah, babies. :)

After the bath, Taya was finally clean and dressed in her first outfit--pirates--thanks to Terre!

We managed a few phone calls in those first days, here to Simona. "Guess what happened to me on Saturday?" (Yes, the memory of the pain dulls quickly!)

A successful feed!

And here's Taya at home for the first time, too tired to do it again.