Thursday, March 1, 2012

Adventures Down Under (Australia)

The first leg of our journey Down Under (see previous post) was a wonderful (but somewhat scattered) week of work at Hugh Possingham's Ecology Centre at the University of Queensland. It was scattered because I gave two talks, because I had a couple of pressing deadlines to meet from back home, and because Ljuba and the girls all came down with a stomach bug that had them projecting from both ends. Yes, I spared you graphics of these excitements; besides, my hands were full!

After that week, Kai's Dad arrived and we all six went to North Stradbroke Island, a gorgeous spot to hang out for a week. Not only were the beaches beautiful and calm, the waters warm, the apartment was super, and courtesy of Nanna and Grandpa. Here's Taya loving the sand. It took a bit more trying before she was ready to love being in the ocean itself (more than a week), but we'll keep working at it!

Taya enjoying the sand

It's hard to pick pictures to show from an experience like that. The skies were deep blue, the ocean turquoise, and everyone was having fun most of the time. There's a load of them on the Webshots album--if you like, you can start with this image (click to view) and this one too of Tivona and Taya and go from there. Here's one of Grandpa, whom Tivona really fell in love with (Nanna too), mostly during this visit I think (many nights, even months after, she'd say "Gampa, gampa, gampa. Nanna, nanna, gampa!" falling asleep).

Grandpa at Straddie

We had lots of fun with Nanna and Grandpa, getting out more than we would otherwise have been able to. They helped carry the girls and the ever-accompanying stuff, helped shop when we needed groceries, Nanna did most of the cooking, Grandpa cut most of the fruit, etc. But we weren't only out and about, we also had some chill time, especially while Tiva napped (there were her last days of two naps a day).

Taya lounging

Because the weather was so perfect, and the apartment so well designed, and we had N&G to help, we also got to eat outside often. As you can see below, that was a pleasure for our two lovers of the outdoors ('Tivona' actually means 'lover of nature').

Tiva loving eating outside at Straddie

Straddie had beautiful vegetation too. I really enjoyed these she oaks (also this image).

A she oak at Straddie

And these beautiful grasses, with the ocean in the background.

View from Pt Lookout, Straddie

The gorge below (and this image) was breathtaking, with sea turtles clearly visible from where we were (but not this particular image).

Gorge near Pt Lookout, N Stradbroke Island

Another thing that was possible thanks to Nanna and Grandpa were some family pics; here's one with Nanna at Point Lookout.

Family at Pt Lookout, Straddie

Tivona has become an entertainer, just like her sister. In the 40s special-moment video below, she plays up to her crowd.



Tiva's (and Taya's) dinnertime antics, clapping, etc.

Nanna really wanted to bring us out to see some rock pools with loads of fish. I was psyched about this, too--I fell in love with coasts and oceans thanks to tide pools. It was more than a kilometre along the beach, where the stroller was no help. With me carrying Tivona, Taya had to walk in the midday heat. It would have taken her an hour to do the back and forth if Nanna hadn't carried her much of the way. One might see it as 'spoiling' her, how much she got carried when she walks so much with us, but what a great kind of spoiling their grandparents indulge in (rather than sweets and gifts).

Nanna and Taya at Straddie

The photo below isn't flattering of either Tivona or I, but when I look at it, I feel that strong ocean breeze, and I'm transported back to the moment--Tivona snacking (as so often), just hanging out in my arms (there's also this image).

Kai and Tiva at Straddie

In contrast, here's a sweet photo of Ljuba, Taya, and Tivona (see also this image, although less flattering of Taya).

Ljuba, Taya, and Tiva at Straddie

Look what Mama caught on the shore!

Ljuba and Tiva at Straddie

Tivona just loves the sand. It's hard to get her to look up, she gets so immersed in things.

Tiva playing in the sand at Straddie

But here's her face!

Tiva playing in the sand at Straddie

You'll see more of this, but Tivona just loves playing with these laundry clips that Ljuba brought along to hold up their black-out curtains (which saved us many an hour of sleep). Little did we know this functional item would be such a great toy!

Clips!

That little wild animal Mama caught on the shore, here it is, bundled up (see also this image).

Mama and her bundle

And here's our other little bundle.

Taya getting dry and warm

And more of Tivona playing in the sand.

Tivona in the sand

I got to play on the beach too! Oh, I relished that.

Kai playing in the waves at Straddie

I took the girls in to jump in the waves too. You can tell that Tivona enjoyed it! (There's a closer photo here.)

Dada and Tiva after jumping in the Straddie waves

On the way back, after saying goodbye to Nanna & Grandpa for a while, we had fun on the ferry. In this 42s must-see video, Tivona gets very excited about a dog.



Getting excited about a dog (on the Straddie ferry)

From Straddie we drove down to Burleigh Heads, our last major stop in Australia. More sun and beaches!

This photo of my three girls always makes me smile. They have fun together! And look at how coy Tivona is, popping just like her big sister and Mama, and apparently understanding fully what's going on. (Here's another, of Tivona popping on her own.)

Ljuba, Tivona, and Taya 'popping'

Back to those laundry-clips. Watch this 54s must-see video and see Tiva's body control as she lifts her toe-clipped leg up and waves it around from a sit, without a wobble. Pilates instructors would be proud! And check out Taya laundry-clip hands cuddling her bear.



Tiva wants clips on her toes while Taya laundry-clip hands cuddles Little Bear

We also drove inland and went to a national park in the rainforest (Springbrook). Here's Ljuba and Taya walking together there (and this 48s everyday-life video shows Tiva dancing and Taya talking about a kookaburra going potty).

Ljuba and Taya at Springbrook

And here's one of the many beautiful sights at Springbrook NP, a waterfall (see also this tree-fern in a little waterfall).

Waterfall at Springbrook National Park

We promised Taya and Tivona they'd get to see Aussie animals. Well, they don't just come around the beach, and we didn't spend much time in the bush. So we had to go to see them elsewhere. Most of the animal parks were exorbitant and a bit too entertainment-oriented, so we sought out the David Fleahy Wildlife Park (part of the national park system), which was super. Our first attempt got aborted when we started walking there and discovered just how pedestrian unfriendly rural Australia can be. Our second got aborted when the trunk light (left on when we got the car, but unnoticed) burned through our battery. Third time lucky!

Koala at David Fleahy Wildlife Park

Before we knew it, it was time for us to pack up from Burleigh Heads. We hated packing up! What with all the food, the crib-tent, the black-out curtains, all the toys and other things that mysteriously got stashed in every drawer, nook, and cranny, packing up was always a multi-hour task with Tiva fastidiously unpacking every bag she could get her hands on. We finally made it out and drove up to Southport where we spent a wonderful midday swimming and picnicking before heading up to an airport hotel for our final Aussie night. Here are my three girls, smiling together on that gorgeous Southport kids' beach.

Tivona, Ljuba, Taya at Southport

Here's Tivona, learning to walk there.

Tivona learning to walk

Here's Taya, playing at that super playground.

Taya playing at a great playground at Southport

And here's Tiva and I together.

Tivona and Dada at Southport

They had this super bike-train, that both Taya and I got a huge kick out of.

Taya and Dada sitting on the bike-train

What a wonderful way to end our Australia trip. Next stop, New Zealand!

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Fall in Vancouver, spring in Brisbane

We had a wonderful first-half of fall in Vancouver. Taya stayed in preschool, while Tivona kept Mama busy at home. Dada hung out at Simon Fraser University with the Hakai Network and caught up with folks at UBC before sabbatical travels. Months late, here are some memorable photos and videos.

Tiva loves to ring the doorbell, and imaginary bells, too (41s everyday life video)!



Tivona rings the fridge's belly button

Taya and Mama share a smile over a gorgeous spider costume that was a tad too small to wear for trick-or-treating.

Taya (in a spider costume) and Ljuba

If she'd lifted her hands much further, it probably would have split. Bummer.

Taya showing all 8 arms of her spider costume

Tivona, like Taya, is wonderfully dramatic and expressive. In this everyday-life video, she claps for more peach. She knows good fresh food, and she won't accept anything less (as in this 43s everyday life video)!



Tivona claps for more peach

Ljuba and I both love to get out. But we find that when we don't push it and have some quiet moments at home, that we generally have some wonderful family moments. In this 12s special-moment video, the girls get excited to run into the bedroom to surprise Mama.



Running to Mama hiding behind the door

One little outing was quite close to home. Not as full of big trees as I (KC) would like, but fun all the same (Deer Lake). Here's Tiva at the fence looking out over the lake. And here's another, similar.

Tivona at Deer Lake

And the same day, Taya enjoying running on the grass.

Taya running at Deer Park

And here's Taya, Ljuba, and Tivona, all together.

Taya, Ljuba, and Tiva at Deer Lake

Our little whirling dervishes make us dizzy sometimes, as in this 46s must-see video of T'n'T spinning on their bums while Tiva texting on Ljuba's phone.



Whirling, texting dervishes

Other times Tivona's much more relaxed at home.

Tivona at home

We were excited to bring both the girls to Capilano reservoir to meet the salmon swimming up to the hatchery. Here's Tiva (37s special-moment video), and below you can see Taya (27s special-moment video).



Taya meets the salmon

In October, the girls started interacting more. In this special-moment video, they both take the bar (bookcase) as if doing ballet. And in this image, they sit together in the laundry basket.



T'n'T doing ballet

Sometimes the interacting isn't so much fun for us, although it may be at least as much fun for them. In this 24s special-moment video, Tiva the joker sticks her finger in her nose and Taya eggs her on.



Taya eggs Tivona on to stick her finger in her nose

Taya is often a great sport. I really miss doing yoga. Usually my only chance is nap-time on a weekend, but Taya doesn't nap (rest, not sleep) long, so sometimes I start a routine then get Taya out, and she joins me for the rest. In this image she does downward dog, in this one warrior 1, and down below side-angle pose (I think).

Taya doing side-angle (?) pose

Ljuba and I were busy planning for Australia, NZ, and California when Hallowe'en arrived. Fortunately, our dear neighbours bailed us out by lending us this gorgeous strawberry costume for Tivona. As you can see below, she didn't start out enamoured with it (you can also see her alone in this image), but she definitely warmed up to it.

Ljuba and Taya watching Tiva as a strawberry for Hallowe'en

I'm not sure what it is about kids and baths, but they always seem to look cuter there. Or maybe it's just our girls, and that the water tames their crazy hair. In any case, here's Tiva.

Tivona in the bath

Taya and Tiva showing off their Hallowe'en costumes together (also this image).

Hallowe'en sistersd

Tony and Elisa gave Taya and Tivona this fishing puzzle. We didn't think that Tiva was quite ready, but here she is, having picked up a piece, our proud fisher-baby.

Proud fisher-baby

Tivona has been learning tons, so we've been trying to keep up with her on videos. In this 79s everyday life video she uses a chair as a walker/shopping cart, in this 39s everyday life video she goes up and down a slide (tummy style), and in this 28s everyday life video she eats and loves a mandarin, as in the photo below.

Tivona enjoying her dinner

And here she is proudly sitting in the wicker chair.

Tiva sitting in her chair

Before we knew it, we were off on our travels. Packing was of course a huge ordeal, as I scrambled to finish several pressing work tasks, and Ljuba anticipated the full range of what might be needed in five weeks travel Down Under. We were both rather anxious about the long flight. We boarded the flight to LA at the girls' bedtime, then had a 2+ hour layover before boarding the 14+ hour flight to Brisbane ~ midnight. Taya and Tiva didn't sleep on the first flight, then fell asleep in the stroller in LAX. The flight attendants needed the stroller before they needed us, so we had to disassemble the napping vehicle, interrupting Tivona's nap. It didn't even cause Taya to stir, and she continued to sleep in my arms, so I put her down. There were no seats remaining in the lobby (it was a very full flight), so I had to put her on the ground, resting on our carry-on duffle. She cracked up the folks in the lobby (pretty much everywhere we went, we were a spectacle), sleeping peacefully with fluorescent lights blaring down on her.

Taya sleeping on a duffel in LAX

The flight itself was of course hard. Taya slept for hours, even after I banged her (unintentionally) through over a hundred rows of seats, while I also carried the duffel, a backpack, and my laptop bag. She wasn't happy when she woke, but she was dry (she's been out of diapers for months, but Lj was nonetheless concerned), and she managed to get back to sleep for several more hours. My job was to get Tivona to sleep. Every time was a major ordeal of pacing and singing. Sitting was not an option, as I discovered. And despite my best efforts, she couldn't sleep through more than ~50 min, and she only had two more of those the whole journey (so <3 hrs sleep over >24 hours in which she'd normally sleep 13+). But she was a trooper, as you can see in this 9s special-moment video in the Brisbane airport of Tiva walking in my footsteps.



Tivona walking in Dada's footsteps

Tivona also cracked up dozens of people in the immigration line when she emulated me lifting the bags (9s must-see video below). I'm quite sure I wasn't grunting the way she does in the video, but I also know that after ~1 hour sleep, I was in no state to remember!



Tiva grunting and lifting bags in the immigration line in Brisbane

Then we went to our apartment, but unfortunately could not check in. So we went on a marathon grocery shop, instead, while Taya had a long nap in the car, stroller, etc. Tiva slept very little, but then once we got hope she finally crashed (also this image). Meanwhile, Taya and I got ready for a swim (this image).

Hot sleepy Tiva

Tivona, like Taya, is a big joker. I wonder where they get it from. When we were waiting around while Mama caught up on some sleep, we worked in some giggles (in this 71s must-see video).



Tiva, Taya, and Dada goof around

Taya is remarkably tender, as you've seen before, but most of all with her toys. In this 43s special-moment video, she rocks her toys then puts them to bed our Taringa Gardens apartment closet.



Taya rocks her toys for nap time

As soon as we arrived in humid Brisbane, Tivona's hair--which had recently got curly--really sprung up.

Tiva's hair sprung up in the hot humidity

Taya has been drawing a lot. In this image, inspired by Amelia Bedelia, she plays doctor by "drawing blood". She also does other kinds of exercise with me--in this image she shows off her plank. And below she helps me do pushups.

Taya helping Dada with push-ups

It was so wonderful to have Nanna there the day after we arrived. She stayed with Auntie Virginia (her sister), but came out to see us often. In the 32s special-moment video below you can see Taya and especially Tiva getting a kick out of her, and also cuddling with each other.



Taya and Tiva getting a kick out of Nanna

We met Auntie Virginia with my cousin Simon and his family at Mt Coot-tha Botanical Gardens. I somehow failed to get any good pics of them (sorry!), but this desert plant turned out nicely.

Desert plant at Mt. Coot-tha Botanical Gardens, Qld, Aus

We all loved the beets we had in Australia. Especially this little beet-murderer, Tiva.

Beet-murderer Tivona

Tivona is a wonder. Sometimes we just don't get her. Like in this 43s must-see video, where we still can't figure out what she's doing with her diaper and belly.



What *is* she doing with her diaper and belly??

Tiva also got good at scooping, as you can see in this 12s everyday-life video. And this 43s everyday-life video, while Taya sat and talked and talked. (Taya was actually eating only chicken noodle soup, thanks to a violent stomach bug that she and Mama had, and Tiva got.) And Tivona and Taya are often helpful when we need to move things, like this big bed (33s special-moment video below).



Tivona and Taya tries to move the bed

And that was the end of our time in Brisbane! Stay tuned for the vacation part of Australia, plus NZ and more.

Saturday, December 3, 2011

T'n'T's extended summer, T.O. and Vancouver

For 2011.8.20 - 10.2

Late summer was a bit different this year, thanks to my (Kai's) sabbatical. Instead of preparing for the grind of the fall semester, we headed off to Toronto to visit family (we missed most of our friends this time). On the plane ride over, I tried to prepare Tivona for the trip. Here's a 69s everyday-life video of that exchange. (If you're wondering why I was doing the funny cackle-laugh, it was my attempt to elicit a a similar funny laugh from Tiva, as she had been doing it spontaneously before the video.)



Tivona and the windy plane

We had the good fortune of spending a fair bit of time with Ljuba's family when mine was canoeing up North. Sandra met us at High Park, where Tiva and Taya did some swimming in a splash-pad with water fresh from Lake Ontario (it must have been ~4C). They seemed to mind it much less than we did! In this 23s everyday-life video, Tiva tries to drink some.



Tivona drinking at High Park

Coming back on public transit, Tiva showed us that the most likely suspects for pickpocketing are not strangers, but our very own troublemakers. See this 47s special-moment video.



Tiva the thief

We were really grateful that Simona timed her visit to coincide with ours. As an unexpected minor side-benefit, she brought along with her this kiddie pool, and Taya and Tiva loved it, as you can see below and at this extra pic (linked through the blue words here and below).

Yay for Simona's pool!

One thing that Tivona's birthday brought was a headful of curls. With those, Tiva reminded us especially of her Auntie Sandra, as you can probably see in this photo below (with Tiva holding one of Dedek & Babica's apples, which Tiva loved, as you can also see here).

Auntie Sandra and Tivona

Tivona and Taya both loved their time with Babica and Dedek. But both also got on to Dedek. Taya kept asking Dedek why he was always watching TV and playing the computer, and in this 29s special-moment video Tiva has taken Dedek's remote and is refusing to give it back (most of the action is in the first few seconds).



No, no, Dedek! No remote for you!

The trip to Toronto in late Aug provided us with an opportunity to celebrate Taya and Tivona's birthdays together with their Kovacic extended family. And the party provided the opportunity for balloons, which are of course a source of joy for most toddlers and babies. In the special-moment videos linked here (37s) and here (59s); Tiva bounces a balloon down on her head, and mouths one while spinning around and around in a circle.

Tivona watching the balloon

Taya had tons of fun just decorating for the party. By the time that the actual guests arrived (e.g., Aunties Elisa and Simona, here) she was utterly spun.

Decorating for the big b-day party

I've posted a bunch of photos from that party-day: Ljuba and Tiva eating a garden apple (here); Tiva hammering a balloon under Ljuba's and Sandra's watchful eyes (here); Taya opening a present (here); Tiva trying on a gift (here); and others (you can navigate to them in my Webshots album from any of the other links). But here are the ones I liked best of all.

Here's Taya showing her undying love for Simona and Sean's dog Pumpkin--you can see the adoration in her eyes (that's not just the flash).

Taya loving Pumpkin

Here's Taya blowing out candles on the shared cake.

Taya blowing out birthday candles

Here's Tivona waving around one of her gifts.

Tivona and her new gift

And Tiva moving pots around in the garden (oh how we miss having a garden in Vancouver!).

Tivona moving pots around

Here's Auntie Sandra and Tivona.

Tivona with Auntie Sandra

Here's Tiva investigating beer bottles.

Tiva inspecting the beer bottles

Here's Tivona with Uncle Celio. Unlike Taya, Tiva won't just go to someone else and happily hang out in their arms. She loves to say hi and smile, from the safety of Mama or Dada's arms, but if she's put in someone else's arms, she often quickly reaches back to us, as she does here (even though she's smiling).

Tivona and Uncle Celio

Tivona loves her Mama. Presumably because nursing has worked so well with Tiva (not so with Taya), Tiva feels a certain comfort with Ljuba that I don't seem to be able to give Tiva. (Taya seemed to be equally comfortable with us two.)

Tivona and Ljuba

We all love playing with Tiva's little feet. Here Taya tickles Tiva's feet, while she's in Ljuba's arms.

Playing with Tivona's foot

Tivona is social just like her sister, in many respects. In busy social settings when she's somewhat the centre of attention, Tiva clenches and shakes with pure excited energy. See her do it at the DeAngelis' place, when they graciously hosted us for an early dinner, in this 32s special-moment video (here) and the photo below.

So excited she's shaking

Both girls loved the DeAngelis' dogs. Here's Taya with Elisa and Timmy.

Auntie Elisa, Taya, and Timmy

Later in the trip, we had a wonderful two days at Soo & Tony's with T'n'T's cousins, but I somehow failed to get many good photos at all. Here are a couple of Tiva, with colouring utensils,

Tivona with her drawing utensils

And with Nanna at the zoo.

Tivona with Nanna at the zoo

Then we had a great few hours with all the Chans downtown, but we forgot our cameras. Ay.

On the way home, I captured an 18s must-see video that encapsulates the indignities forced upon babies when their parents have to … well, you'll see. I love the way Tiva completely plays along, looking down just at the right moment, giggling along with me.



What to do with Tiva?

One of Tiva's greatest expressions of love for me was her patting. When I tell her I love her, she often pats me (and say "pat, pat, pat"). See this 21s special-moment video.



Pat, pat, pat

As Tivona has got more interactive, Taya has taken a renewed interest in her, as you can see in these two photos of the girls together.

Sisters posing together

Here they are both inspecting Taya's dolls.

Sisters and their dolls

Tivona's little body has the muscle-bound curves of a Kovacic, as you can see in this photo of her trying to put on one of her hats (there's another here).

Tivona trying on a hat

And Tivona is expressive just like her big sister, too--we love the way she says "Labble, labble, labble" and also "Uh oh!" in the 44s everyday-life video below.



Labble, labble, labble ... uh oh

As Taya's grown taller, she's thinned out. Some people make fun of her belly (which protrudes), but that's just her fibrous diet. As you can see in this photo of Taya dancing, she's actually getting a little skinny.

Taya dancing

I love chasing down the two girls and having them squeal in delight. In this 29s must-see video, Tiva shows how much she enjoys it by flopping down at the end, trying to get caught.



Chasing down the troublesome T'n'T, Tiva tries to be caught

Another thing that I do to crack the girls up when mealtimes stall is to blow their fingers, as you can see in this 28s special-moment video.



Blow my finger, Dada!

Here at breakfast I try to encourage their self-feeding by cheering for their scooping.



Yay, Tiva, good scooping! Yay, Taya!

In the rare moments when Tivona's go free reign of the house, she takes advantage by exploring Taya's toys, an activity that often otherwise elicits squeals of indignation from Taya. See Tiva's exploration in this 71s everyday-life video.



Tiva exploring Taya's toys while she's got a chance

Tiva's been talking more. When she says 'Sour', she usually scrunches up her face like she does in the later part of this 49s everyday-life video.



Painted face Tiva--yoghurt is 'sow'

Another skill that gave Tivona great pleasure when she mastered it was climbing into and sitting in chairs. In this 18s everyday-life video, Tiva and Taya sit in the two little chairs, and show off sunny smiles.



Taya and Tiva sit in their chairs

Taya's first trip to the dentist sparked a new generation of 'doctoring', that using dentist tools got from the dentist's office. See these two special-moment videos (25s, and 51s), and the photo below.

Taya 'doctoring' Quatchie

Taya, as you're learning new trades, do you think that you can also learn how to pack and move??? See coming blog posts for Australia, New Zealand, and California.